By Christiénne Miller
Being this is “hump” day and all, I thought it might be fun to talk about dirty sex — I know, terrible joke, but I can still hear you giggling…anyhow, moving on…
In September’s Cosmo, Korin Miller’s article on relationships titled: The “Dirty Sex” Rule Happy Couples Swear By” quotes a statement that Kevin Bacon made on the red carpet. When asked, apparently, what keeps his 21 year marriage to Kyra Sedgwick going strong, he stated that they “Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.”
O.K. seems simple enough — NOT! I mean, what do you do if you don’t feel like a dynamo dirty sexpert? Maybe you know the basics about what feels good and what doesn’t, and have learned a thing or two from past and present lovers, but — when everyone involved seems satisfied — what more can you do? There seems to be quite a lot, actually.
You could try drawing a hot hand with this “Sex Deck” from Dr. Dawn Harper. Relationship expert Yvonne K. Fulbright has some excellent advice on heating up between the sheets. One of the most intriguing resources I discovered, is this subscription blog called Dirty Talk 101. It seems like the benefits of all these ideas far outweigh the cost, don’t you think?