by Sophia Marcel

You may own a power suit. You may be able to craft a perfect French Twist (one handed! While changing lanes!) But if you haven’t mastered these talents, you’re not a grown up yet, says Siobhan Adcock, author of 30 Things Everyone Should Know How to Do Before Turning 30.

WRITING THE PERFEFT THANK-YOU NOTE  Adock’s no fail rule: Be genuine. “It’s not just about being appropriate–it’s about making someone feel appreciated.”

How to: Write someplace comfortable, with a cup of tea or wine. If you feel like yourself you will sound like yourself, so forget etiquette “rules.” Don’t gush; just write like you talk. And no, it’s never too late to write one, but sooner is better.

WHISTLING WITH YOUR FINGERS  “This is a fearless gesture,” says Adock. “It shows you’re not afraid to make noise–and it’s really useful for city girls.”

How-to: Tuck lips over teeth and fold the tip of your tongue up and back with your index fingers (pointing at each other but not touching). Push tongue down and blow! “It takes practice,” says Adcock. “People will stare, but it’s worth it.”

TAKING GREAT PICTURES “Everyone loves someone who can make them look great on film,” says Adcock. Think flattering, not forced.

How-to: First of all, move in close; faces are more interesting than bodies. If those faces are roundish, take the photo from slightly above eye level. Use a flash to diminish under eye circles. And be sneaky — informal shots usually turn out best.

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