Sex

6 Things That Have No Business Near Your SweetSpot

1. SUGAR

Many of us think of our sweet spots as an extension of ourselves. We might think, “I love dessert.  Why should my lady parts miss out on the fun?” Besides the potential for a sticky situation right out of a bad sex comedy, the reason why is that Candida albicans, the pesky infection-causing strain of yeast don’t just love sugar— they thrive on it. While all healthy vaginas host a small amount of yeast, a PH-balanced environment usually controls the population.

 Putting anything with sucrose, glucose, fructose or lactose down there is like opening a buffet for them to gorge gourmet and any substance that ends in “ose” should be kept far away from your panties. Next time you and your honey feel like sweetening up your bedroom fun, do yourself a favor and save the whipped cream for your sundae.

 

2. WET SWIMWEAR AND CLOTHING

Remember when your mom would tell you not to sit around in that wet bathing suit?  It turns out she was worried about more than the furniture.  While any change in vaginal PH can bring on a yeast infection, excess moisture
and irritation can sometimes be the culprit.  That’s why it’s important to change into something dry (preferably cotton or moisture wicking) ASAP after you enjoy some beachy fun.  Along the same lines: as soon as you’re done
working out, make sure to get out of those sweaty clothes so you don’t have to take an itchy jog to the pharmacy.

3. “VAJAZZLES” & AND “VATTOOS”

Personal style is a beautiful thing but you may want to think twice before applying temporary inks and adhesive rhinestones to delicate areas. Vajazzling and vattooing are usually done right after a Brazilian wax, when your skin is more vulnerable to irritation and infection. And it’s not just the mucous membranes of your girly parts that are extra sensitive — all the skin around your bikini area should be treated with care to prevent unpleasant skin reactions. WHEN you feel like redecorating your downstairs, try a cute new pair of panties instead.

 

4.   SCALPELS

Temporary decorations can be potentially irritating but unnecessary renovations to your downstairs could have permanent consequences.  Plastic surgeries like labiaplasty (trimming labia minora to make them small and
symmetrical) and vaginal rejuvenation (surgical tightening of the vagina) come with risks.  The worst reported side effects are bleeding, infection, scarring and loss of sexual sensation. Truthfully, every woman’s flower is unique and there’s no prescribed way it’s “supposed” to look. Try to embrace what makes you uniquely beautiful. Unless something about your anatomy is causing you physical discomfort – don’t fix what isn’t broken.

 

5. SKIN BLEACHING PRODUCTS

While many women are concerned over the size of their parts, some are more concerned about the color. There is actually a growing market for bleaching services and products for down there.  But buyer beware! Most skin lightening agents have an irritating product called hydroquinone  — and trust us, the last place you want to put that is near your most delicate spot.  This skin-stripping chemical is so damaging, it’s banned in all countries except the US.  It’s also reported to cause irreversible hyperpigmentation.

It’s important for women to know that several factors affect the hue their sweet spots come in and variation is healthy and normal. Ethnicity, genetics and age are the three biggest factors that determine  your down-there pigmentation and it’s actually common for the bikini area to be a little darker than the rest of your body.

 6.   NONOXYNOL-9

Nonoxynol-9 isn’t just an ineffective birth control; it’s one of the most irritating substances you can introduce to your sweetspot. This chemical is a surfactant, meaning it destroys sperm by disturbing cell membranes. Now just imagine what it does to your girly bits.  Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!

According to the World Health Organization, not only does nonoxynol-9 have a negligible effect on conceptions rates, it has been shown to increase the risk of HIV infection.  There are many safer, more effective contractive options—speak to your OBGYN to find the one that’s right for you.

The 21st Century SweetSpot

by Alessandra Baltzell,

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I’ve been talking about getting ready for bikini season for quite sometime. Now I’ve come across this world famous, revolutionary, all-natural Lightening Gel for Sensitive areas and I felt the need to share it with everyone.

If you suffer from embarrassing dark or discolored skin in intimate areas such as your bikini line or even your underarms, then this if for you. As more people discover bikini waxing, the more we pay attention to how we look once the hair is removed.

South Beach Skin SolutionsTM Lightening Gel for Sensitive Areas is the ultimate in safe, gentle and effective natural lightening for the anal, vaginal, breast, underarm, face and other sensitive areas. What better way to get results, and in the privacy of your own home.

The sweetspot has never had it so good!

It’s Been Said That “Good Lovers Are Made, Not Born.”

by Sophia Marcel0807-reasons-sex

…however there are exceptions to this rule. If you happen to be one of the lucky ones to has found the perfect sex partner, I congratulate you.  But if you can take it or leave it when it come to sex then you are not doing something right.

You will never know what great sex is unless you speak up.  If you want your sexual desires fulfilled you must let your partner know.

Talking about sex however, is possibly one of the more difficult conversations in life. Did you realize that for many people, it’s easier to talk about sex with friends than it is with your sexual partner? Why is that?

If you truly want your sexual relationship to be all that it could be, communication is the key to great sex. Pillow talk is important at all stages of a relationship if you want to keep it fresh and alive.

I guarantee you will see life from a different perspective. For starters you will be in a much better mood.

Why Sex is not Just Good, But Good for You

By Alessandra Baltzellsex-and-menopause

So we know sex is fun, but is it necessary? The answer is simply, yes.

According to researchers, making love could be one of the few pleasures in life that is genuinely good for you.

Not only does sex boost your mood, but frequent lovemaking also boosts levels of immunoglobulin, key immune cells that fight infection. There is also growing evidence to show it not only boosts your physical well-being, but increases longevity.

A flurry of small studies suggests sex is as good for your health as vitamin D and broccoli. A healthy sex life not only relieves stress, improves sleep and burns calories; it can also reduce pain, ease depression, strengthen blood vessels, boost the immune system and lower the risk of prostate and breast cancer.

So go on, make love and live a long and healthy life.

Your Sex Drive Before, During and After Menopause

by Sophia Marcel

Many women find that going through menopause does not impact their sex life. Some may even find it exciting being that they no longer have to be concerned about having a period. But unfortunately for many the physiological effects of menopause do impact their enjoyment of sex.

During this time your hormones are giving you quite a ride, not only are you experiencing hot flashes that occur at any given time causing you discomfort and making you irritable, but there are also the night sweats. The last thing you want is someone bothering you wanting to have sex.

While the male sex drescher-mask-sized2ive is easy to define — and relatively easy to restore — that’s often not the case for women. The man gets a prescription for Viagra and he’s ready to rock and roll. If you are not ready to jump in and dance along, there could be real problems.

It is important to understand that these effects can be treated, but it takes some attention to health, hormones and mental attitude to continue to evolve sexually through menopause and beyond.

Sex therapists report the reality of the use-it-or-lose-it factor: regular sex, either with a partner, through masturbation, or a combination of the two definitely helps keep vaginal tissues more supple and moist, which is a problem due to low estrogen levels that cause vaginal dryness.

Sex and Yoga is there a Connection?

by Alesandra Baltzellimagescazyt44c

Ohhmm, yeah. New research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that regular yoga practice can enhance your sex life.

You already know the ancient Indian practice of Yoga promotes greater flexibility, better muscle tone, a surefire way to release stress, ease pain, and maybe even enlightenment. But better sex? Really? You betcha.

Yoga may also trigger the production of sex hormones, increase lubrication, and boost self-confidence and sexual performance.

After completing a 12-week program that included about an hour of yoga each day, 75% of the women reported improvements in desire, arousal, orgasm, and other good stuff relating to sexual function.

Whether heating up your sex life is the main goal of your yoga practice or just a happy side effect, chalk this information up as yet another great reason to roll out the mat. Here are the major ways it works.