Sexuality

6 Things That Have No Business Near Your SweetSpot

Thursday, May 24, 2012 by SweetTalk on the Spot

1. SUGAR

Many of us think of our sweet spots as an extension of ourselves. We might think, “I love dessert. Why should my lady parts miss out on the fun?” Besides the potential for a sticky situation right out of a bad sex comedy, the reason why is that Candida albicans, the pesky infection-causing strain of yeast don’t just love sugar— they thrive on it. While all healthy vaginas host a small amount of yeast, a PH-balanced environment usually controls the population.

Putting anything with sucrose, glucose, fructose or lactose down there is like opening a buffet for them to gorge gourmet and any substance that ends in “ose” should be kept far away from your panties. Next time you and your honey feel like sweetening up your bedroom fun, do yourself a favor and save the whipped cream for your sundae.

2. WET SWIMWEAR AND CLOTHING

Remember when your mom would tell you not to sit around in that wet bathing suit? It turns out she was worried about more than the furniture. While any change in vaginal PH can bring on a yeast infection, excess moisture
and irritation can sometimes be the culprit. That’s why it’s important to change into something dry (preferably cotton or moisture wicking) ASAP after you enjoy some beachy fun. Along the same lines: as soon as you’re done
working out, make sure to get out of those sweaty clothes so you don’t have to take an itchy jog to the pharmacy.

3. “VAJAZZLES” & AND “VATTOOS”

Personal style is a beautiful thing but you may want to think twice before applying temporary inks and adhesive rhinestones to delicate areas. Vajazzling and vattooing are usually done right after a Brazilian wax, when your skin is more vulnerable to irritation and infection. And it’s not just the mucous membranes of your girly parts that are extra sensitive — all the skin around your bikini area should be treated with care to prevent unpleasant skin reactions. WHEN you feel like redecorating your downstairs, try a cute new pair of panties instead.

4. SCALPELS

Temporary decorations can be potentially irritating but unnecessary renovations to your downstairs could have permanent consequences. Plastic surgeries like labiaplasty (trimming labia minora to make them small and
symmetrical) and vaginal rejuvenation (surgical tightening of the vagina) come with risks. The worst reported side effects are bleeding, infection, scarring and loss of sexual sensation. Truthfully, every woman’s flower is unique and there’s no prescribed way it’s “supposed” to look. Try to embrace what makes you uniquely beautiful. Unless something about your anatomy is causing you physical discomfort – don’t fix what isn’t broken.

5. SKIN BLEACHING PRODUCTS

While many women are concerned over the size of their parts, some are more concerned about the color. There is actually a growing market for bleaching services and products for down there. But buyer beware! Most skin lightening agents have an irritating product called hydroquinone — and trust us, the last place you want to put that is near your most delicate spot. This skin-stripping chemical is so damaging, it’s banned in all countries except the US. It’s also reported to cause irreversible hyperpigmentation.

It’s important for women to know that several factors affect the hue their sweet spots come in and variation is healthy and normal. Ethnicity, genetics and age are the three biggest factors that determine your down-there pigmentation and it’s actually common for the bikini area to be a little darker than the rest of your body.

6. NONOXYNOL-9

Nonoxynol-9 isn’t just an ineffective birth control; it’s one of the most irritating substances you can introduce to your sweetspot. This chemical is a surfactant, meaning it destroys sperm by disturbing cell membranes. Now just imagine what it does to your girly bits. Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!

According to the World Health Organization, not only does nonoxynol-9 have a negligible effect on conceptions rates, it has been shown to increase the risk of HIV infection. There are many safer, more effective contractive options—speak to your OBGYN to find the one that’s right for you.

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The 21st Century SweetSpot

Monday, July 25, 2011 by SweetTalk on the Spot

by Alessandra Baltzell,

I’ve been talking about getting ready for bikini season for quite sometime. Now I’ve come across this world famous, revolutionary, all-natural Lightening Gel for Sensitive areas and I felt the need to share it with everyone.

If you suffer from embarrassing dark or discolored skin in intimate areas such as your bikini line or even your underarms, then this if for you. As more people discover bikini waxing, the more we pay attention to how we look once the hair is removed.

South Beach Skin Solutions^TM Lightening Gel for Sensitive Areas is the ultimate in safe, gentle and effective natural lightening for the anal, vaginal, breast, underarm, face and other sensitive areas. What better way to get results, and in the privacy of your own home.

The sweetspot has never had it so good!

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To Douche or Not To Douche

Tuesday, June 28, 2011 by SweetTalk on the Spot

By Lisbeth Endre

To douche or not to douche that is the question. Vaginal douching is the ancient practice of rinsing the vagina for hygienic purposes. Still millions of women around the world continue do it, and a recent survey found that in United States 30 percent of women between the ages of 20 and 40 douche regularly.

So why do you think so many women still douche? When the vagina has its own self-cleaning mechanism — good bacteria that help to keep it healthy. First, douching disturbs this delicate balance by reducing the number of protective Lactobacilli, thus creating an environment in which bad bacteria can flourish. Second, douching can actually cause an infection by disrupting the natural balance of bacteria and yeast in the vagina.

The risks of douching have seldom been clearly explained. But in fact some researchers suspect that douching can cause irritation and inflammation of vaginal tissues, the resulting irritation can make it easier for us to get STDs, bacterial and yeast infections.

If you are having odor problems, seriously a little gentle wash and water on the vulva, a good soak in the tub, and voila! Nice, clean hoo-hoo. And nice clean hoo-hoo isn’t aromatically challenged. If yours is having odor issues, or unusual discharge issues (some types of discharge are perfectly normal!), this means you should see your doctor.

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Vajacial, Vadazzle Oh My

Wednesday, June 1, 2011 by SweetTalk on the Spot

by Sophia Marcel

You are probably thinking what the heck is a vajacial and why would I want one? Well, let me tell you it is the newest treatment in a long line of frankly bizarre ways to make your bikini area more ‘glamorous.’ And you can have it done exclusively at Stript Wax Bar .

Suggested for women who get brazilian waxes, the trademarked treatment aims to do for your ladybits what a facial does for your face. “We developed the Vajacial to really address and treat the key needs of anyone who gets waxed,” Stript owner Katherine Goldman said in a press release. “Your ‘little lady’ will thank us!”

It’s basically a facial, for your brazilian to sort out any uncomfortable skin concerns, such as ingrown hairs, bumps, and skin irritations. It takes about 50 minutes and will give your crotch the best non-orgasmic experience you can imagine.

It’s meant to be performed the week after your wax and involves 4 steps which include a antibacterial cleansing with witch hazel, papaya exfoliation, and an esthetician that personally removes your ingrown hairs (now that’s service!) are all standard. The treatment is finished with a calming, anti-freckle, anti-acne mask and a lightening cream.

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How to Keep Your Breasts Firm and Beautiful

Wednesday, May 25, 2011 by SweetTalk on the Spot

by Sophia Marcel

A beautiful bust is in part a gift of nature but also in part a result of the care that you take. To men they’re mainly erotic – but for women it has a positive effect on our confidence.

Of course some sag is inevitable. Gravity, breast growth spurts in your teens and early 20s, pregnancy, breast-feeding, and hormonal changes all cause your breast to change shape. Any change in the shape of your breasts stretches your skin’s collagen and elastin, two components that make skin firm. This leaves your twins less perky over time.

Still, there’s one move that will mess them up for sure and that is weight fluctuations, which will surely cause your boobs to sag prematurely. Breasts are very sensitive to weight changes so it’s best if you keep a stable weight. The breast is the first place you lose volume when you lose fat hence, will lose even more volume if you lose too fast. While a great cleavage is nice, I’m pretty sure we can all agree that small and perky looks better than big and not so perky.

There are a few things we can do to protect our breasts such as exercise, how you sleep and wearing a good bra. For more tips read here.

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The Dangers of Bikini Waxing

Thursday, May 19, 2011 by SweetTalk on the Spot

by Lisbeth Endre

Simple body hair removal can go from sexy beauty habit to scary sickness faster than you can say ‘yowza!’

Could bikini waxing really be dangerous or were these just isolated incidents? Well, a look back in the news shows that one woman made headlines in 2007 when she almost died from a bikini wax gone bad.

This article is not meant to scare anyone, and by no means is it meant to imply that you will die during a bikini wax. Instead, it’s meant to educate women on the potential dangers of bikini waxing. To make an informed decision about anything, you should know all the facts.

Summer is coming so if you have your heart set on a Brazilian, go for it! And before you venture out be sure to visit SweetSpot Labs, they carry the perfect spa waxing protocal bag that includes a cute disposable thong panty.

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